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ASKING PERMISSION

8/21/2016

If you are asking others, and the world at large for permission --

re what you want to do or not do,
to accept what you think and feel,
to feel good about what you’re inclined to do or not do,

then you are cutting yourself short,
putting yourself in the way of others judging you,
and most of all – your internal self is judging you,
causing you to feel doubt,
needing others to validate what you feel, need, want.
Did you know this is a common experience with people?
I've seen this in leaders frequently in my 2,000 hours of coaching.
Needing permission from others means there is some inner conflict,
or an internal voice from the past that is not aligned with who you really are now.

See if you can capture this conflict by writing in a journal. See if you can work with all sides of yourself, so that you can find self-acceptance, validation, and acknowledge who you are and what you want is not only okay but is great.
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If you seek validation and acknowledgment from others, make sure that you are okay with whatever you hear and it will not cause you to change direction on what you need and want. If it could influence you to go off course, then perhaps consider who you will bring into that space with you, perhaps someone who will not judge or push their own agenda, but will help promote you in who you really are.
This can help move you forward.
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Your feelings and what occurs in your body can also guide you to what you want, in what calls to you, and also what is working against you. Sometimes what's in our head can get in our way. Our body can tell us a lot.

No one else can tell you what is right for you. You can learn to master your outcomes and be the leader of your life and your business.
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Did you know that most people have this conflict going on inside and cannot give themselves permission? In coaching, I’ve seen this in attorneys, military intelligence leaders, banking vice presidents, senior directors ... so if you are experiencing this, don’t beat yourself up, you’re in good company.
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Just know there is much you can do about it.
Love The Business & Life You’re In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching
Corri Milner
Certified Professional Coach
Certified Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership
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‪#‎leadership‬ ‪#‎leadershipcoaching‬.

STARTING A BUSINESS? HAVE A BUSINESS?

8/16/2016

STARTING A BUSINESS?

PRESENTLY IN BUSINESS?

How challenging is it for you
to get started?

Or to move forward in your
present business?

Does your heart and soul want to start a business, but your head says something else?

Do you want to pursue or further your dream, but you don't know where to start or what's getting in your way?

Sometimes people get stuck in their business and sometimes even before they are out of the gate with it. It's more common than you know. You might not know exactly what is getting in your way.

If you're looking for answers, wanting to move past inner/outer challenges, or simply looking for FOUNDATIONAL STRATEGIES in your business, then you've come to the right person. I offer provocative and innovative Business Coaching. 6 years in practice, 2000 hours experience, coaching small business owners, leaders in their industries: senior directors, CEOs, lawyers, banking executives, military leaders, business owners, coaches, therapists, educators, artists, health faciitators, writers, stay-at-home moms, and everyone in-between.

Here are some of the many things that get in people's way in their business:
-- Conflicts between what you want and what you think
-- A gremlin voice inside
-- Fear of failure
-- Fear of success
-- Fear of rejection
-- Fear of change
-- Your money mindset
-- Perfection, an illusion
-- Excuses
-- Inner and/or outer challenges

All of these and more can be processed through in coaching.

At no fault of your own, one may have developed a TEMPLATE, it's like an overlay at no fault of your own, of how one learned to approach life and business. Metaphorically, it's like having a car, but you're not the driver, the template is. It may drive you to repeated. and often unwatned, outcomes.

Passion and motivation, with forward actions serve us better when we are aligned in AUTHENTIC SELF -- with what we need and want ... in who one is now.

If you want to start a business or already have, and would like to partner with an experienced Business Coach and get the support you deserve, let's chat.

SET YOUR CALL: FREE CONSULT & COACHING DEMO ~ in link below

https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

Love the Business & Life You're In!

Corri Coaching

ONLINE BUSINESS OWNERS ~ Some Helpful Hints

8/4/2016

If you seek to do business with people online, here are a few tidbits to keep in mind, that could get in your way.

While some of these things may appear trivial on the face of it, you may lose droves of potential clients that may need or want your services.
-- It took me years to realize these things, and can make all the difference in your building a thriving business or not.

(1) NOT GIVING FULL INFORMATION
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Saw on Facebook a link to a free webinar. It didn't mention what time the webinar was. I had to register for it in order to find out that it was at a time I'd be with a client. It also didn't say before or after registering if there would be a recording of the webinar sent.
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You may lose potential clients that may be busy right there with lack of info.
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(2) VOID IN INTERACTING WITH THOSE YOU SEEK BUSINESS FROM
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Regarding the above webinar, after receiving a confirmation email regarding the webinar I could not attend, I emailed back asking if there would be a recording. You guessed it, I got no answer. This is a turnoff.
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If you are seeking new business online but you are not interacting with your audience, then you are not yet fully engaged in your business. This could cost you clients and money.
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This is a very common thing with those that have new businesses -- being stuck in your own head, not relating to or interacting with those you want business from. It doesn't work like that.
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Days later I received a recording. By then I was onto other things, and after receiving sales type emails each mail for 4 days following the webinar I missed - the person and his company appeared to be disconnected a bit of a nuisance now daily do sales hits.
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When people that are seeking business are so self-involved in their heads or do not give full info or do not have a virtual assistant to respond to others -- people are quite busy, they will move on and away to other things, they might or might not return. You've now wasted time and energy that could have been used better.
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(3) INTERACTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA
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Interacting in your business on social media for some can be very challenging. I know for me in the first few years of business - it didn't do much for me and I didn't know why. I didn't know I was challenged. We don't know what we don't know. Lol!
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So you're excited, you're finally doing it -- you're launching a new business! You get online, you present what you do, and it will just happen, right? Wrong! It doesn't work that way.
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How you interact online, your presence, if you connet on your posts, if you respond to comments on your posts, all of these things resonate you and determine if you will make a connection, or not.
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In my first few years of business first as a Life Coach (later was a Business Coach and thankfully knew bettyer by then) -- I was more busy spouting what I knew as an "expert" -- than taking the time to interact with people, to inspire, to learn re the people on my page:
-- what they knew,
-- what they felt,
-- what they wanted to happen next,
-- what lights their fire,
-- where is their joy,
-- where is their motivation,
-- where is the gap they want to fill,
-- how can I help motivate,
-- how can I help inspire,
-- how can I better listen,
-- how can I better engage,
-- how can I serve.
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The first few years of my business, I made what I thought were profound statements. I learned so much in coaching school. But the error was that I didn't seek to learn of and about others, I didn't interact.

If someone takes the time to interact on your posts, then it is up to you to honor who they are, what they think, what they feel -- and to take the time to answer them. Sometimes it is okay to click like to a comment. But most of the time, if people take time out of their busy schedule to acknowledge and write comments on your posts on your business page -- and you don't also comment or have some response other than a Like click -- then you are not really engaged in your business.

(4) CONNECTING vs. DISCONNECTING

This topic too may sound trivial, but this river runs deep.
If you are living in your head or fantasy of your business and are not connecting to yourself, your passion, your motivation, moving past your fears and anxiety, you could very well be disconnected from yourself just to get by. I get that, it can happen, sometimes there is too much on someone's plate. We don't want to judge anyone's experience.
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Unfortunately, if you are disconnected from yourself, it is likely you are disconnected from others. If you are seeking business online and it is a service business, as opposed to hard products that sell, and you are disconnected from yourself and your motivation, then it is quite possible you are disconnected to your approach with others. This could get in the way of attracting business. You could go through the actions, and be on overdrive, and long hours of it ... but if you are not engaged and comfortably interacting with others in a positive way, resonating who you are on a core level -- authentic and ready to receive -- you could be losing a lot of potential business.

There are a great many Success Strategies that can be used in achieving the business you want. These are a few tidbits that may help you move forward.

Feel free to let me know how it goes. I love Business Coaching.

Love the Business & Life You're In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching

Set an Appointment: https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

To Contact Me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html
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LET'S GET REAL ... SHALL WE?

8/4/2016

Are you feeling this? Everyone wanting to be your guru?
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Everyone wants to tell you
-- how you should feel
-- how to should be
-- what you should do
-- how you should think
advice
advice
advice ... !
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Are you feeling this? ~ Should vs. Desire?
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What it all comes down to:
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It's up to you ~ what you want to feel.
It's up to you ~ what you want to be.
It's up to you ~ how you design your life.
It's up to you ~ to decide your outcomes.
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It you seek a catalyst, like a coach or anyone else, just know that you are the guide, you are the leader of your destiny, your feelings, your outcomes.
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Feel what you want to feel
Do what you want to do
Be who you want to be
It's not only good enough
It's great.
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And if you do need a catalyst, someone to help you open that door ... to you ... well, you know where to find me.
Have you've heard the song: Great rendition!
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Check it out and see if it doesn't get your butt on fire to find --
where you left your life and your desires!"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9T-2Fb_ZlY

INTRO SESSIONS THAT SELL

7/26/2016

INTRO SESSIONS THAT SELL

For Coaches ~ One Time Offer

How would you like to have
an Intro Session with
potential clients go smoothly,
be able to negotiate money
without a hard sell, and
onboard a new clients?

INTRO SESSIONS THAT SELL .... 90 minute hour call, $52

Upon receiving this information, a Coach client writes:

"Thank you so much for all this info. This is coaching Gold!
I feel very enthusiastic and charged up!
Thank you Darling! You are so AWESOME to work with!"

On this call will be:
(1) Intro Sessions that Sell
(2) Comfortably Negotiating Money, without hard sell
(3) Their 1st Assignment on that Call that creates a platform to their agenda, and a fulfilling and longer coaching relationship
(4) Coaching Contract - how to create it, so you are both covered in a win-win, and the multiple reasons why you need it.

On this call, will give step-by0step instructions of what has afforded me a large turnover from potential clients to clients, using a special technique I learned in Coaching School, taken further, plus some methods I have added to my Coaching Pravctice, lighting your way to comfortably receiving a new client.

After the call, I will email you:
(1) An mp3 of the Conference Call
(2) Step by step written instructions: Intro Session That Sells
(3) 1st Assignment written steps, why it is so valuable
(4) Coaching Contract Form

Questions can be asked on the live call, or typed privately in the Chat option, to me.

Contact me if interested ~ limited availability.

Corri Milner
Certified Professional Coach
Certified Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership
www.corricoaching.com

6 years in practice.
2,000 hours experience coaching.
I coach leaders in their industry.

BLAME vs. ABUNDANCE

7/16/2016

Linked is a Tony Robbins documentary, I Am Not Your Guru. It's eye-opening, heart-opening!

When you blame others for what they did wrong in your eyes ...
do you blame them for what they did right for you?

Do you blame others for the gifts and/or love they showed you?

Have you ever seen people in the workplace or otherwise that say to someone they are so sweet - then they trash them behind their back, and they may have a long list of people they blame for any number of things. Everyone has failed that person - ever seen that?

Have you ever seen people ask for help and someone gives it to them, and they trash them?

This is about how the person views their self, they see the world conspiring against them ~ instead of with and for them.

Blame of others ultimately translates to blame of self.
Blame puts out a one's inner light, it is a victime mode of being. Blame can obstruct a person from their opportunities and abundance.

If you ever go through this yourself, perhaps you will catch yourself in the blame mode -- and make the shift to your empowerment -- by seeing the light in your world and the light in those around you.
Having gratitude for others changes everything.

You can empower yourself by seeing the good of what others give you instead of what they didn't give you.

This is a choice; the power of that choice either way is your's.

Much Love (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching
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#empowerment #abundance #gratitude
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Tony Robbins documentary, I Am Not Your Guru:
https://www.netflix.com/watch/80102204?trackId=14170032&tctx=2%2C0%2C9adcbfb5-5bfa-4aa2-ac69-ecd985f65f98-56850919
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WHERE IS YOUR ABUNDANCE?

7/12/2016

VENTING & COMPLAINING

Venting and complaining can
help us, sometimes.

For women it makes our
cortisol decrease (our stress
hormone) and our oxytocin
increase (our feel good hormone).

But there is a limit to what venting and complaints can do for you. In fact, it can also work against you.

Eventually, if repeated often, venting and complaining becomes one's focus, it becomes your outcome, i.e. you will have more of the same to complain about. It will also attract those to you that repeatedly vent and complain. Why is this important?
It is only important if abundance is important to you. If one is busy venting and complaining about others or circumstances on a regular basis, that is where your energy goes -- in mind-body-spirit. This will, in part, become like your mantra -- instead of an affirming mantra. This is important because it will block you from abundance, your prosperity, your true self, and your life purpose. It will keep you stuck and in lack until you alter your process. It is a victim mode of being.

VICTIM TO TRIUMPH ~ VICTIM TO TRANSCENDENCE

One's story from Victim to Triumph or Victim to Transcendence,
even before you're at a full triumph plateau, can change the direction you go in, and a welcoming different path. It also changes what you attract to yourself.
If you are in business, and your modis operandi is mostly around woe is me, and a fair amount of complaints about others, the message you send to yourself, unconsciously, can be self-sabotaging and self-damaging. It is a message that you have no value, otherwise why would this be happening repeatedly. It is a message that the universe, and the world you live in, is not working with you but against you. It is a message that you must protect yourself from all that is around you, so your heart and soul may not be open to receive all that your conscious mind thinks it deserves.

IT IS A MESSAGE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE NOT THE METAPHORIC DRIVER OF YOUR CAR.

A NEW MINDET

Bringing in a new mindset can really work for you. Why? Because what we think and focus on we move towards -- and it moves towards us simultaneously ... manifestation. It creates new intentions that are not muddied by the negative internal voice.
How is this done? There are a number of steps you can take.

(1) INNER GREMLIN

Find your Gremlin voice that exists inside you, at no fault of your own, from childhood to now. There may be multiple voices talking you down, the "I can't" voices, the "I should" voices, the "I'm not enough" voices. Everyone has these voice, find your strongest and primary inner negative voice(s) if possible. Try not to beat yourself up about it, it got there for a reason. Processing through one's Gremlin voice, and we all have them, can clear a good portion of one's stuck, challenges, and obstructions.

(2) OTHER BLOCKS

-- Fear and Anxiety
-- Assumptions
-- Misinterpretations
-- Limited Beliefs.

After Gremlin is understood and you are working in alignment with yourself, instead of against yourself -- examining one's blocks mentioned above, and reducing their impact can mean:

(A) the difference between easier passage to manifesting what you want, and
(B) 1 step forward, 2 steps back.

REWRITE YOUR STORY

On any day, at any time, you have the chance to rewrite how your story is going to go. We can't help the past and where we've been, but we can help the future by what we do now.

CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS ~ CHANGES YOUR OUTCOMES

Changing your thoughts, and your hot triggers, changes your outcomes.
When you’ve done that, watch the amazing things that occur in your business and your life.

IT’S NOT MAGIC, IT’S A PROCESS!

If you would like to learn how this can help you reach satisfaction in any area important to you in your life, feel free to set a 1 hour call with me:

CONSULT & COACHING DEMO (1 hour free)
Click on Calendar link for your Appointment:https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

Corri Milner, CPC, MP-ELI

Love The Business & Life You're In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching
www.corricoaching.com

THE UNKNOWN & OUR POSSIBILITIES

7/12/2016

It's not so easy to step up
and out into the unknown.
It can be quite scary.

And yet sometimes that is
what it takes to achieve your
highest results.

How do you move past your comfort zone -- in order to expand into new territory?

Whether it is a new business you are creating,
or a new love you are wanting,
or a new inner voice you are hearing,
or a new career or lifestyle,
it can be very scary to move into the unknown.
This is why some do not take action.

Many may say,
"I will do this when..."
"I will have this when...."
"I will be this when...."
"I will feel this when...."
But then 10 years later, and one may be saying the same thing.

How do I move past this, you may ask?

• Write down what you want and how you want it, and list them in priority.
• Next write down your Goal List.
• See if you can gain some clarity with this list, as well as setting your intentions.
• Number it in order of priority with the first item being your most important goal.
• Next to each item list on a scale from 1-10 how much you want that item.
• Then next to each item list the date you expect to achieve it by.

Then check-in with yourself. Are you being realistic with the expectations of your completion date?

How does this list make you feel?
Are you excited and motivated?
Or scared and feeling oppressed by it. If scared and oppressed, there's something getting in your way. That's something you want to explore to clear your passage. You work with the part of yourself that is getting you stuck, talking you down, making excuses. It could be in coaching what is called -- your Gremlin.

Often, moving into the unknown ... is where are possibilities are?
It's where achieving our highest priorities may be.

Are you ready for your possibilities?

Love the Business & Life You're In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching

LOVING ONE'S SELF ~ 1st & Foremost

7/10/2016

Loving one's self can be learned.

Why is this important?

At no fault of one's own,
one might not have learned this,
or absorbed it, by example.
It might not have been
available outside of one's self.

It is prevalent in our culture that people judge others. People frequently want to tell others how to feel or not feel, what to do or not do, how to be or not be.

When you have self-love, all of the above falls away and what is important to you stands on it's own in your own empowerment, aligned with what you need and want, aligned with your Higher Self.

When you have self-love, relating to others alters in our perceptions.
We do not then need to have expectations.
Expectations of others usually falls short, and can be disappointing, frustrating, annoying, and can create riffs. This is because one expects others to fulfill them, expects others to help them, and expects others to make them whole.

Expectations of others can often be based in illusion -- rather than the truth of that relationship and where the other person is at and what they are actually offering you or not offering you ... and most of all, what they are capable of.

If one is in self-love, one can shift Expectation to instead be Appreciation. It requires seeing the other person for who they truly are -- and are not.

Then if you need something else or something more in a relationship, where you feel it is not provided -- that something else or something more, you can in self-love awaken and know it -- without blame or self-blame. There is no fault there.
And you can be empowered to seek what you need and want
-- elsewhere.

Make sense?
Are you in self-love yet?

Much Love (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching

‪#‎selflove‬ ‪#‎appreciation‬ ‪#‎empowerment‬

ARE YOU AN EMPATH? Is it a Gift? A Curse? or both?

7/8/2016

EMPATH GROUP PROGRAM

Next group: starts August

You asked for it, you've got it!

Embrace your Gifts ~ release the Curse. Some details below.

Customized to the group members
By phone, Skype, other online methods that don't cost extra.

This Program has been very successful. The members love what they learn, enjoy the interaction, progress each week in what they want, building their Empath Gifts, release the curse. Men and women welcome; a man has been in the 1st Group. Learn to find your calm center, and get the support you deserve.

Testimonial
"Corri’s Empath Group Program is a journey to self. I needed this because my Empath skills were just not gelling for me before I joined.
"Most of my life I've dealt with anxiety, sleeplessness, brain chatter. I wondered, “What’s wrong with me; am I going crazy?” It was because as an Empath, I was absorbing thoughts and feelings from others, it sucked my inner light and created much self-doubt.
"Corri's comprehensive weekly presentation, on topics of my choosing, offered Empath training, tools, and coaching in group, that transformed my self-doubt and feeling judged -- to feeling: worth, acceptance, and love. I had no idea the depth to which I could use my Empath Gifts. Am now feeling empowered with it.
"I’ve learned to access my Empath skills and information using the 4 Clairs and other tools, which now comes to me at lightning speed. And I’m able to keep up with it. There’s just nothing like this, it’s amazing.
... "Thank you so much Corri. You helped me find me!"
~ Carrie Muh
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ARE YOU AN EMPATH? Is it a Gift ~ a Curse ~ both?
Embrace your Gifts ~ release the Curse.
Some details below.

SET APPOINTMENT, see if this Program is a fit,

3 Tier Pricing - provided by phone only, as there are special inclusions,
Try to accommodate.

click on calendar link: https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

can change time zone atop right of calendar
on appointment - please note: "EMPATH GROUP"

I’m a Certified Professional Coach and am a Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership (energy, perspectives, communication). Empaths have been coming to me for 6 years for private coaching. I'm an empowered Empath and understand them – we speak the same language. I created this Program in August 2015, when Divinity pressed me to bring what I do to more Empaths at a lower price in group.

I live in love resonance, and partner with Divinity. What I offer in this Program you will not find elsewhere; it is customized to its participants, and is unique.

It is my Mission to train Empaths how to find their OWN self, to find the very light of their being, to have their special Empath Gifts work for them, and to empower them. It is not about me.

COPYRIGHTED September 2015 ©

Empaths are highly tuned individuals with a skill set in feeling others, knowing things, seeing things, and/or hearing things in a big way. We are often told we are "too sensitive," but in reality we are -- Sensitives. It is this very sensitivity that is part of your greatness.

Empaths often sense being overwhelmed, as they can absorb emotions and energies from others, whether near or far, whether someone you know or strangers. Until one learns various tools of how to navigate this, it can be confusing and exhausting. One may try to deny who one really is to fit in with loved ones, friends, and in the workplace, as I did several years ago, but it can make you feel out of alignment, can stop forward movement in most areas of one’s life, can make one feel disconnected, down, and can block abundance.

Empaths are Workers in the Light, just by being who we are – we each bring much light into the world in various different ways.

Until you learn to use your skill set and have it work for you rather than against you, it may feel more like a Curse rather than the Gift it can be. What if your life worked well for you and you knew your skill set was a Gift, and you could let go of the Curse? What would that feel like? Empaths are oh so much more than they know they are!

As an Empath, for many years I tried to push this part of myself down, tried to keep it hidden, in fear of judgment and backlash. It was when I learned the value of my skill set, embraced it, and revealed who I was – that I first realized being an Empath was part of my own personal greatness and that what I have to offer is something people want. Who knew? This is what Empaths go through.

After I stopped being in judgment of myself as an Empath, I was soon hired to coach individuals (some leaders) in corporate industries like – law, military intelligence, banking, education, utilities, psychotherapy, and other industries – all of whom said they were drawn to my intuitive, empathic focus. When we embrace and grow in who we are, rather than repress it, all things become possible.

Please note: It was pointed out to me by someone in my Program that there is a woman on Facebook & LinkedIn who has plagiarized my Program, even my words that I use as a trained Life Coach. She now uses such words as though she has such a background – her background is Accountant. After she read this about her being an Accountant, she that from her LinkedIn page and made it - Business Development –and Consultant Trainer to Women in Business. The awesome thing about Empaths, we know right away who is honest and who is not. Plagiarism and the veil of pretending quickly reveals itself to most Empaths. I tell you this only because it is important you know I have no affiliation with this woman who copies my Program, my words, and some of my background, like Business Development Programs. If she knew what she was doing, and she had experience in what she pretends, she would be able to find her own honest background and her own honest words.

Some of the many important topics of Empaths:

(1) Extrasensory Tuning
Empaths have an extrasensory experience, even if they don’t quite want it -- in one or more of these Clairs. One can utilize these gifts in a humble and positive manner.
Clairsentience (feeling others and energy around them)
Clairaudience (hearing)
Clairvoyance (seeing, auras, visions, future)
Claircognizance (knowingness)
(2) Absorbing Energy Of Others – in Emotion and/or Body
Some Empaths have difficulty distinguishing if what they feel stems from their self or is coming from others. There are tools you can use distinguish this and also to protect your self in mind-body-spirit, so you can open your channels to work for you.
(3) Healing Meditation (I teach this 1-on-1 only.)
Meditation is very important to Empaths. It can be used for much more than relaxation. The grounding it offers daily can clear and cleanse all the energy one absorbs, can center and calm, and can be helpful for other things as well. It is a useful tool. There are other clearing and cleansing tools.
(4) Reawaken The Intuition You’ve Shut Down
(5) The Wonder Of You ~ Your Gems ~ Your Greatness
(6) What Is Your Skill Set?
(7) Empath in Love Life
(8) Empath in Home Life
(9) Empath in Business
(10) Empath In Career & Job
(11) From Overwhelm To Calm Center
(12) Disconnecting Re A Negative Environment Or Person
(13) Tools To Clear & Remove Negative Energy
(14) Tools To Retain Energy & Empowerment
(15) Psychic Cord-Cutting
(16) Fear Of Retribution For Your Skillset
(17) Religious Loved Ones Who Might Not Understand
(18) Science Says Human DNA Is A Transmitter/Receiver
(19) Communication Skills For The Empath
(20) Rescuer vs. Self-Nurturer
(21) Giving Away Everything For Free
(22) What Is Your Value? Your Rewards?
(23) Boundaries
(24) Trust of Self vs. Self-Doubt
(24) Standing In Your Self-Empowerment
(25) Partnering With Divinity & Your Spiritual Guides
(26) Life Lessons
(27) Your Soul Path
(28) Affirmations For What You Desire/Removing Fear & Anxiety
(29) Forgiveness
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Empowering Empaths: Being part of a like-minded community in a group program that supports, instead of judges, can be nurturing, and can build on your capabilities and possibilities. Navigate your Gifts ~ and feel the shift!

Group is by

Conference Calls – phone/Skype & another online method at no extra charge to you (U.S. and int'l).
Calls: 1 hour presentation, 30 minute interaction thereafter.
All sign Confidentiality, holding Sacred Space for all.
Receive an mp3 of each call.
Secret Facebook group page to interact on, where you will receive added info from time-to-time.

There is 3 Tier Pricing:

Pricing is provided by phone, as there are special inclusions,
Am told the prices are reasonable.

LIMITED AVAILABILITY ~ a few spots left

You don't have to go through the Empath experience alone; get the support you need and want.

SET APPOINTMENT, see if this Program is a fit:

click on calendar link below - can change time zone atop right of calendar
mention: "EMPATH GROUP"

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Love The Life You're In! (◠‿◠) Much Love Empaths

Corri Milner, CPC, MP-ELI
www.corricoaching.com

‪#‎empath‬ ‪#‎soulpath

July 02nd, 2016

7/2/2016

I DID IT!
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How would it feel to you to be able to say this about something you've wanted but have held back on proceeding? I did it!.
Off course? Falling behind or procrastinating on what you want?
Feel like you're running against the ocean tide?
Do you find yourself saying:
I will do that when ...
I will have that when ...
I'll be happy when ...
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NEW: ACCOUNTABILITY COURSE ... by phone/skype/other
.
Join us and feel the shift! ~ for 5 people
Includes:
- group coaching
- setting your intention
- making a plan
- sharing with others in group
- tools to get you back on course
- working through and past inner and outer blocks
- receive support, motivation, and inspiration
- customized assignments
- affirmations: repattern your brain. align with your objectives
- be with likeminded people, rooting you on
- learn from each other
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Brand New Group – for people only
Start Date: August
Day, Time: TBD
Frequency: 3x a month
Calls: 90 minutes
Price: $207/month U.S., pay monthly, can continue
..................................(int’l rate is different, can be lower or higher)
Includes:
-- Recorded Conference Calls.
-- We all sign Confidentiality
-- MP3s of calls
-- Secret Facebook Page to interact on

Testimonials: http://www.corricoaching.com/testimonials.html

Ready to start moving forward on what you need and want?

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Love the Business & Life You’re In! (◠‿◠)
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Corri (Milner)
Certified Professional Coach
Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership
www.corricoaching.com
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STARTING YOUR BUSINESS

5/29/2016

This blog is to share STRATEGIES

that I've offered to my clients.
It has been found crucial in
launchng a business,
building on a present business, expanding a business,
and being successful.

Creating the Foundation and Structure of your business is crucial, even if you tweak it along the way, otherwise one might tread water and backtrack.
Nothing is written in stone, you can change what you are doing as you move along, so that your business grows as you grow. Some have a business for a number of years but have no foundation or structure to it, and it has them running in circles and the money is not coming in. When we get to the foundation and structure, along with some of the strategies below, the clarity and focus takes shape, and motivation builds as one sees themselves manifest their hopes and dreams in business.

You can start a business at any age; you're never too old or too young. I have helped people start their businesses and grow their businesses, and they are doing well.

Some strategies for starting your business:

WHAT ARE YOU CREATING?

-- Company Name
-- How much do you want this business (1-10)?
-- How much are you willing to give up to have it?
-- What you offer
-- How you offer it
-- The benefit a client gets
-- Your mission statement
-- Who is your audience, your tribe?
-- Your 2 minute elevator speech

VISION

-- Your vision of your business
... walk though the larger picture
... walk through a day in your business from beginning to end
-- Start a Vision Board and build on it as you go

BUSINESS PLAN

-- Create a Business Plan - 2 weeks - 1 month – 3 months – 6 months – 1 year – 3 years
-- Amount of weekly hours you devote to business
-- How much $ do you WANT a week?
-- How much $ do you WANT a month?
-- How much $ do you NEED a week?
-- How much $ do you NEED a month?
-- How many clients minimum will it take for you to get by and pay all your bills?
-- How many clients do you want a week?

MARKETING PLAN

-- Create a Marketing Plan – 2 weeks – 1 month – 3 months – 6 months – 1 year – 3 years.
-- It is said one needs to put 60% of their time into marketing.
-- How many hours a week will you do marketing?
... This includes learning marketing, trying a number of different ways to market. It’s a good idea to build up in having different streams of marketing.

CHALLENGES

-- In each of the categories above, what is getting in your way.
-- What does your self-talk say to you?
-- Scale of 1-10, how confident are you that you can have what you want in business?
-- Do inner Gremlin work if needed.
-- Do Affirmations to replace Gremlin voice(s) after Gremlin work is done.
-- What is your relationship with money?
-- Do you fear failure?
-- Do you fear success?
-- Create your own Fear List after reading the Fear chapter by Napoleon Hill in: Think And Grow Rich.

THE ALL-AROUND SIDE

-- Learn Meditation, a practical tool in both business and in life. Creates great focus, productivity, ideas outside the box, learning your next right step, reducing stress, building your energy.
-- For those that believe in something larger than themselves, learning to Partner with Divinity – can up your Manifestation by 10-fold.

-- Process through the above, clear your path, and watch what happens with you and your business.

We are all a work in progress, as are our businesses.

Love The Business & Life You’re In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching

To Contact Me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html

LinkedIn: Corri Milner, Success Strategist, CPC, MP-ELI

LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT

5/25/2016

Seek to become an extraordinary leader in your business, career, life, and the lives of others?

Seek to learn better communication skills and how to read people?

LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM ~ by phone or Skype

One Client Says
"I've seen people that were able to communicate in ways I thought they were born to, with great ease, clarity, and empowerment. They could also see solutions easily, where I only saw problems. I never imagined I'd be one of those people and now I am. I think those others must have done this Program. From week to week I clearly see substantial and concrete progress."

This Program trains 1-on-1 by phone or skype, U.S. and international --
on 7 Levels of energetic consciousness, in leadership and communication skills.

One of my clients felt she had low self-esteem before she came to me, and had difficulty speaking up for herself, both at home and at work. She suffered from great stress at home and work (on a scale of 1-10, it was 10 in both areas). Now her stress level is usually at a 0, but never higher than a 3, both at home and at work. Where her life and work felt strained before, it is now rewarding. Her relationships with her husband and children have improved in ways she never imagined, as has her relationships with those at work. Administration at her work is now using her as a model example to show other employees what they are seeking. She’s loving her life.

Most People Live In Stress And Drain -- Instead of Satisfaction
Learn to have your life and business work for you, rather than against you. It is said that at least 80% of people live stress and drain, conflict and victim modes. These modes are catabolic and effect how one engages in their personal and business life. One can achieve things in these modes, but they are unsustainable, do not deliver much satisfaction in life and business, and cause health issues. When we learn to process though the 7 levels of Leadership, we have the opportunity to achieve the outcomes we seek in sustainability and satisfaction.

How It Works
You purchase an Assessment from me.
I purchase it from the Institute For Professional Excellence In Coaching (iPEC), the originator of the well-knonwn Assessment in the coaching industry. The Assessment questionnaire is emailed to you; it takes abouit 30 minutes to complete in the privacy of your home. We schedule a private 1 hour reading for you; it’s a snapshot of where you are, your strengths, what you can build on, your possibilities, and a roadmap of sorts. Everyone I’ve done this for has been excited and motivated by it.

Witness Your Progress Weekly
If you decide you'd like to proceed with the Program we discuss logitsics and pricing. The Program has workbooks that you can work on between sessions; if your schedule is too busy, we can do them together on the phone. You can witness your progress as we move along. On completing the 7 Levels of Leadership training, you have the option to continue with any or all of the following (all have workbooks).

1. Leadership Strengths & Gaps
2. Removing Barriers of Success
3. Emotional Intelligence
4. Dynamic Communication
5. Influencing Others
6. Problem Solving
7. Productivity
8. High Energy Relationships
9. Health & Wellness
10. Time Management/Balance

Contact me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html

chedule a call, Eastern time: https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

By phone, Skype
U.S., international

CREATING SUCCESS

4/25/2016

You may see successful people around you, on TV, in the magazines. How did they get to where they are?

Some may have had luck or been supported and sponsored.
Most people, however, achieve success a different way, a way that is possible for all of us.

Success begins with a thought - then connects to an emotion - then connects to some type of motivation or passion - like imagining what it would be like to achieve what you want, visioning it.

Next comes focus, making plans, taking action steps, while removing challenges that get in your way. Action steps can be as small as you like and many people achieve their hopes and dreams just this way. Later when you start seeing positive results due to your actions, you might take larger steps if you're so inclined. Any step you take, any thought you have, makes a difference.

Step by step you climb the mountain to what it is you want.
It can be a small mountain, a hill, or a giant mountain.
Whatever it is ... it is all good.

We tend to complicate things because we may have fear, anxiety, or simply are not used to using a process to achieve what we want. We look at others and think what they achieved magically fell into their lap, but that is not usually the case.

Success can be in love, relationships, communication, leadership, starting and building a business, career, building health - recovering from illiness - or learning a new way to nagivate illness, personal development to become the person you always wanted to be, and so much more.

Why not take that step today?
What else is there?

Love The Business & Life You're In!

Leadership, Levels of Energy, and Consciousness

4/21/2016

“There are seven levels of energy,
or, consciousness...."
(See 7 levels below.)

“As human beings, we’re like stocks with our energy going up and down all day long. Thoughts and feelings such as non-judgment and joy raise the price of your stock. Their counterparts, like victimization and anger, can easily lower stock value.

“At any given moment, you’re somewhere within these 7 levels. Your current state of consciousness is composed of your existing energetic makeup, which encompasses every thought, feeling, and emotion you’ve had today, as well as your recent actions. It also includes every thought, feeling, and emotion you’ve ever experienced, and every action you’ve taken in your life. These experiences are etched in you like data is etched into a computer chip.”
~ per Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

1 - Victim
2 - Conflict (80% of
people live in
Levels 1 & 2,
catabolic Levels)
3 - Responsibility
4 - Service
5 - Opportunity
6 - Creativity
7 - Complete passion

THOUGHTS = EMOTIONS = ACTIONS = OUTCOMES

If you could alter your thoughts, it would alter your outcomes. Once we learn how to, we have the opportunity to utilize all the above 7 to our best possibilities, in life, relationships, health, and business.
Sound too simplistic?
Out of reach?

You could learn to do this on your own, people do it, but it could take 10-15 years.

Or you could learn to do this in a certain amount of months.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM

I have 2 people in this program right now -- OPENING FOR 1 PERSON

Private, 1-on-1. This program is for someone interested in
Positive Transformation, where Manifestation grows from.

This Program includes taking an Assessment online in the privacy of your home, then receive a private 1 hour reading by phone. It is a snapshot of where you are right now, and a Roadmap of sorts. It shows your leadership skills in how you lead your life, your strengths, what you could use support with, and how to achieve what you want.
We then work weekly using Workbooks and customized Assignments and Affirmations to process through all the 7 Levels of Energy,. You can learn where you are in the scheme of things in your life, relationships, work, learn where you’d like to be, and find out how to get there.
We do the journey together.

A client in the program said:

"Have seen people communicate in such a way it seemed so easy for them, in such a powerful way, that I was in awe. They’d look at a problem and have solutions on hand, while speaking to others in a positive, empowering way. Always thought they were born with that. Now learning this Program, I realize they must have trained on what we have been doing. I never knew this could be me!
"I couldn’t be happier with this Program."

Learn to see yourself and the world in an exciting, new way. It will motivate you and your energy in ways you never knew possible. YOu will learn amazing communication and leadership skills; leadership skills in how you lead your life and/or business and how you lead as an example to others, in an empowering way.
It opens doors, both personally and professionally.

Perhaps you’d like to find out what this Program could do for you?

To Schedule a Call – click my calendar below, change time zone at top right.
Mention: PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM
https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

Love the Business & Life You’re In! (◠‿◠)

Legal Success Corridor : www.legalsuccesscorridor.com
Corri Coaching : www.corricoaching.com

Teaching this training is my 2nd Certification, and recertify every 2 years:
Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership Index (MP-ELI)

The Energy Leadership Index and it's Assessment is well-known in the coaching industry.

ARE YOU AN EMPATH?

4/8/2016

ARE YOU AN EMPATH?

IS IT A GIFT ~
A CURSE ~ OR BOTH?

ARE YOU AN EMPATH? ~ join us

Do you experience being an Empath as ~ a Gift ~ a Curse ~ or both?

Empaths are highly tuned individuals with a skill set in feeling others, knowing things, seeing things, and/or hearing things in a big way. We are often told we are "too sensitive," but in reality we are -- Sensitives. It is that very sensitivity that is part of your greatness.

Empaths often sense being overwhelmed, as they can absorb emotions and energies of others from others, whether near or far, whether someone you know or strangers. Until one learns various tools of how to navigate this it can be confusing and exhausting. One may try to deny who one really is to fit in with loved ones, friends, and in the workplace, as I did several years ago. But it can make you out of alignment, can stop forward movement in most areas of one’s life, and can make one feel disconnected and down.

Empaths are Workers in the Light, just by being who we are – we each bring much light into the world in various different ways
Until you learn to use your skill set and have it work for you rather than against you, it may feel more like a Curse rather than the Gift it can be. What if your life worked well for you and you knew your skill set was a Gift, and you could let go of the Curse? What would that feel like? Empaths are oh so much more than they know they are!

This Program is not a teleseminar with info you can find in a book. It is a customized to the group members, with live interactive training and some coaching. We will begin each call with a Clearing. As a Certified Professional Coach, I’ve coached Empaths 1-on-1 for 5 years to move past overwhelm to their empowerment, joy, and abundance.

As an Empath, for many years I tried to push this part of myself down, tried to keep it hidden, in fear of judgment and backlash. It was when I learned the value of my skill set, embraced it, and revealed who I was – that I first realized being an Empath was part of my own personal greatness and that what I had to offer is something people want. Who knew? This is what Empaths go through. ---- After I stopped being in judgment of myself as an Empath, I was soon hired to coach individuals (some leaders) in corporate industries in – law, military intelligence, finance, education, utilities, psychotherapy, and other industries – all of whom said they were drawn to my intuitive, empathic focus. When we embrace and grow in who we are, rather than repress it, all things become possible.

Some of the many important topics of Empaths:

(1) Extrasensory Tuning
E.mpaths have an extrasensory experience, even if they don’t quite want it -- in one or more of these Clairs. One can utilize these gifts in a humble and positive manner.
Clairsentience (feeling others and energy around them)
Clairaudience (hearing)
Clairvoyance (seeing, auras, visions, future)
Claircognizance (knowingness)
(2) Absorbing Energy Of Others – in Emotion and/or Body
Some Empaths have difficulty distinguishing if what they feel stems from their self or is coming from others. There are tools you can use protect your self in mind-body-spirit, so you can open your channels to work for you.
(3) Healing Meditation
Meditation is very important to Empaths. It can be used for much more than relaxation. The grounding it offers daily can clear and cleanse all the energy one absorbs, can center and calm, and can be helpful for other things as well. It is a useful tool. There are other clearing cleansing tools.
(4) Reawaken The Intuition You’ve Shut Down
(5) The Wonder Of You ~ Your Gems ~ Your Greatness
(6) What Is Your Skill Set?
(7) Empath in Love Life
(8) Empath in Home Life
(9) Empath in Business
(10) Empath In Career & Job
(11) From Overwhelm To Calm Center
(12) Disconnecting Re A Negative Environment Or Person
(13) Tools To Clear & Remove Negative Energy
(14) Tools To Retain Energy & Empowerment
(15) Psychic Cord-Cutting
(16) Fear Of Retribution For Your Skillset
(17) Religious Loved Ones Who Might Not Understand
(18) Science Says Human DNA Is A Transmitter/Receiver
(19) Communication Skills For The Empath
(20) Rescuer vs. Self-Nurturing
(21) Giving Away Everything For Free
(22) What Is Your Value? Your Rewards?
(23) Boundaries
(24) Trust of Self vs. Self-Doubt
(24) Standing In Your Self-Empowerment
(25) Partnering With Divinity & Your Spiritual Guides
(26) Life Lessons
(27) Your Soul Path
(28) Affirmations For What You Desire/Removing Fear & Anxiety
~ ~ ~
Empowering Empaths: Being part of a like-minded community in a group program that supports, instead of judges, can be nurturing, and can build on your capabilities and possibilities. Navigate your Gifts ~ and feel the shift!

Group is by Conference Calls – phone/skype & another online method at no extra charge to you (U.S. and international). All will sign Confidentiality, holding Sacred Space for all, and will receive an mp3 of each call. We will have a Secret Facebook page to interact on, where you will receive added info from time to time.

There is 3 Tier Pricing; Tiers 2 and 3 include free bonuses with additional private Empath Support. Am told the prices are very reasonable.
LIMITED AVAILABILITY. If you would like to join the next group, feel free to contact me in one of the links below.

You don't have to go through the Empath experience alone; get the support you need and want.

For More Info:
SET APPOINTMENT by phone/Skype, select on calendar link below, change time zone atop right, mention: "EMPATH GROUP"
https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR
or
CONTACT ME in link below, mention: "EMPATH GROUP"
http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html

Love The Life You're In! (◠‿◠) Much Love

Corri Milner, CPC, MP-ELI

Testimonials: http://www.corricoaching.com/testimonials.html

Love The Life You're In! ♡♡ Corri Coaching

On LinkedIn: Corri Milner, CPC, MP-ELI

OPENING TO AWAKENING & AWARENESS

3/14/2016

People are often afraid of coming into awakening and awareness ... at the start.

Awakening and awareness can be scary at first.
We all go through this. What causes this?

Awakening begins with the journey to self.
In order to move ourselves through the daily grind, we often lock up part of our selves, memories, things that feel like inner or outer obstacles, how we feel about ourselves, how we feel about others, unresolved and unhealed inner things – in a metaphoric internal room, with the door closed, locked up perhaps. Sound familiar?

It may help to feel that by doing this we are unimpeded moving forward with our lives. Unfortunately, it can dissuade us, or veer us off the course we hoped and dreamt of, or make what we want seem out of reach until we give up on it. If we give up on what we want – it can sometimes become reawakened when we face a major crisis in our life and we reexamine the life we’re in vs. the life we want. That happened to me several years ago, before I ever became a Certified Professional Coach. It was my awakening.

This is a good part of why it can be scary to start coaching for most. It is a leap of faith. The leap really is the faith of you, your commitment to you. Only part of it is about trusting another person with your private life in confidentiality; with the right coach, this melts away in less than an hour of interaction.

What is most scary to all – and usually not realized until later, is our Inner Gremlin. Yes, a Gremlin, and we can have more than one. We all have them. An inner gremlin is the voice that talks us down, gets us stuck, stops us from opening to our possibilities, stops us from pursuing what we want, and even stops us – from thinking about what we want. It is as though we feel we are not “allowed to” have something. We “should do” something else.
As one of my clients once said and wrote a blog on, “I was shoulding all over myself.”

In coaching, as we move through what I call Discovery, we peel the onion and eventually find that Gremlin. Though at coaching school I trained how to help my clients move through and past Gremlin, I’ve devised my own process.

Once a person moves through the Gremlin process and it has been released, we begin one or more customized Affirmations to replace the inner voice to something that works for you. It sounds simplistic and perhaps small, but it is very large. It is repatterning the template of our being, absorbed into our psyche, it is a re-set. By absorbing this new voice that you prefer, it alters your thoughts, emotions, actions, and outcomes to what it is you want, as opposed to what it is you were dealt. You come into alignment with your True Self, Authentic Self. I.e., you have a say in your life and how the story will be going forward.

After releasing a Gremlin my clients say they feel so much freer in their business and their life, and that coaching is so much easier for them, inspiring, and fun.

Love The Business & Life You’re In! (◠‿◠) Corri Coaching

To Contact Me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html
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GIVING BACK ~ OFFERINGS

3/1/2016

OFFERINGS ~ give-back, no charge (phone-skype, U.S.-int'l)

I do give-backs 2x a year (Nov.-Dec.) and now. Because am a little late out of the gate for March, am including April as well.
(One offer per person.)

OFFERING # 1: Coaching Consult & Session, 1 hour

OFFERING # 2: Meditation, Practical & Ethereal, 1 hour

Learn the many uses of Healing Meditation, and learn how to do it. We will do it together by phone or skype.

Meditation is most known for reducing stress and relaxing. It can be used for various other things in business, life, and health.

To schedule, click on my Calendar below (set for Eastern Time), change to your timezone in the top right.
Let me know which OFFER, you are selecting.

https://www.timetrade.com/book/HSCKR

Much love ♡♡ Corri Coaching

WHEN I LEARNED THIS ~ IT CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER

2/23/2016

It speaks to how to alter your life in the way you want.

In coaching school I learned of 7 levels of energetic perception..
Depending on which level we process our lives in - determines:
- how we think
- what we say
- actions we take, or don't take
- our outcomes.

I learned 80% of people live in the 1st two levels at no fault of our own:
Level 1: Victim Mode
Level 2: Conflict Mode It's how our culture teaches to us to get by (at least in the U.S. it is like this).
-- In Level 1 Victim, we can get others to do for us.
-- In Level 2 Conflict, we can get a lot done in the confines of a culture that mostly exist in Levels 1 and 2.

The victim and conflict modes are catabolic modes, so even though we may achieve a lot, it comes at a high price in: health, satisfaction, relationships, and is usually not sustainable. When we reduce our levels of victim and conflict (which can be done) we not only reduce our stress, but our higher levels of energetic perception are more activated, our passage becomes unstuck and unblocked, causing us to move forward in our lives in the way we want.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM

Am training 2 people right now in my Personal Development Program so they can learn to be at the Levels of existence they have seen others be at and admired. This training is different that Life Coaching. It allows people to alter how they see themselves and the world, to choose how they want to show up, how to turn problems into solutions, and to see and embrace the world in mode of opportunity. When we reach the opportunity level - we see everythng as opportunity.

These two people in my program have moved from Victim Mode to Conflict Mode - both are in Level 3 now - Responsibility.
Each Level alters one's responses and one's outcomes.
This stuff blows my mind. Here are the Levels of Energetic Perception.

Level 1: Victim
Level 2: Conflict
Leve 3: Responsibility
Level 4: Service, Compassion
Level 5: Opportunity
Level 6: Synchronicity, Creativity
Level 7: Beingness

What are your thoughts about this?
Do you see others around you functioning in a certain Level?

To Contact me
http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html
Corri Milner, Cerified Professional Coach, Master Practitioner in Energy Leadership.

(The 7 Levels of Energetic Perception were-are taught at the Institute For Professional Excellence In Coaching (iPEC)).

BE LOVE ~ it never gets old

2/14/2016

BE LOVE ~ it never gets old.

You may be without a love
partner on this day that
many celebrate.

Make that okay, okay?

Be love in whatever that means to you in it's highest achievement.

Build a bridge today with someone.

Love never gets old.

Corri Coaching

INSULATING ONE'S SELF

2/7/2016

There were times in my
life I insulated myself.

Have you ever done this?

Many people insulate themselves thinking that they will get by better, uninterrupted --
by not dealing with something,
by not feeling something,
by not wanting something,
by not being who they want to be,
by not saying what they want to say,
by not having what they want to have.

On the face of it, one might think they can get by better, but the reality is it can be a disconnect from self. A disconnect from our self might have some gain to it, but does it cost you anything? Here's why I ask this.
What we don't deal with ... burrows into our MIND-BODY-SOUL.

THE MIND
If one is insulated, one's thoughts are not free to move forward in the positive, or to think outside the box, because it is already taken up with keeping something hidden from one's self, it is preoccupied. In a sense, we have shut ourselves down and shut ourselves off. To open things up in thoughts is to open up Pandora's Box, right? And then what do you do with it?

THE BODY
The body absorbs those thoughts and emotions that we don't deal with. Thoughts, believe it or not, can re-emerge in our body. Those thoughts show up on a cellular level as disease (dis-ease), because the mind and body are connected. To attempt to separate from our thoughts and our memories we fragment ourselves -- we are now working as disconnected parts -- rather than part of a whole. Different parts working against each other. Does this make sense?

Instead of resolving and healing those thoughts-memories and making them into what will work for us and to positively motivate our lives, separating the mind and body - can create havoc. It could cost one's health and create a journey all it's own at some point in disease where one no longer has a choice of avoiding those thoughts, the body will demand attention in disease. It is the price paid for such a disconnect. Many of us have experienced this. I know I have. Years ago, I didn't deal with what was occurring within me, and tried to lock it up. It always showed up in my body and my health, surgeries, illness.

THE SOUL
The soul our life journey, our essence, our life lessons -- in past, present, and future. It is connected to our heart's desires, our life purpose and mission.
If we lock up our thoughts and memories, and shut them down, we also shut down our heart's desires, our life purpose, our motivation, our possibilities, our joy. We shut down the possibility of discovering what these things are for us and what they mean to us.

"Millions of people have decided not to be sensitive.
  They have grown thick skins around themselves just
   to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost.
   Nobody can hurt them, but nobody can make them
   happy either." ~ Osho

I wonder if "happy" is an inside job. What do you think?

Which is greater with a disconnect from self, the Gain or the Loss?
Is that something you're willing to trade?

Much Love ♡♡ Corri Coaching

To Contact me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html

IF YOU WORK IN THE LEGAL INDUSTRY

1/24/2016

If you work in the
legal industry,
you are a big achiever.

Whether you are a
Partner of the firm, Management in the firm, an Of Counsel, Associate, or
Support Staff,

the pace is quick, the workload is large. It requires you be a big achiever in whatever capacity your job role is.

For most in the legal industry, there is good money to be made(except of course if you're just out of law school and working for a temp job, hourly wage, filling the large 40 person rooms).
If you work as a solo practitioner after law school, it is a whole other game. This post is mostly directed to the experience in the corporate sector.

Attorneys make big bucks (the industry I worked in for more than 20 years), there is usually satisfaction with their finances.

Over time, however, it can be challenging, due to:
. climbing the ladder,
. long hours with large workloads,
. trying to get in league with the movers and shakers,
. as a partner in the firm, always needing to make the monthly profit quota with a possible threat of the chopping block if you don't, always seeking to bring in new business,
. the one-upping between firm partners and between associates, and
. support staff always learning new technical skills, keeping up with an always increasing workload

Over time, one can for the sake of the money, loose track of why they went into the law field. After financial security, where is the satisfaction?
As you support your family financially, and if single, yourself, where is your satisfaction in the Wheel of Life.

Many experience:
. losing touch with their intimate partners,
. have less time to spend with their children,
. forget about the things they enjoy and love doing,
. sacrifice their health until it creates a crisis, and
. can forget the very reasons they went into the law field to begin with.

Is it time to check-in with yourself?
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Love the Life & Business You're In! ~ Corri Coaching
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To Contact me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html

(while I build a 2d website, strategies for satisfaction in the legal industry)

Corri Milner, CPC, MP-ELI
Success Strategist in Business & in Life

5 years in practice, 1800+ hours coaching

IN THE STILLNESS

1/16/2016

It is in the stillness that I find

answers,
motivation,
passion,

and my next right step ~ in action.

In times of sudden change or the need to create change ...

could it be that our greatest transformations and wanted manifestations begin in those moments of stillness where our authentic self, unimpeded, undistracted,

gets ideas outside the box that serve us, and knows our next right step?

Where do your find your answers and your next right step?

Corri Coaching ♡♡

LOVE ~ LIFE IS A DANCE BETWEEN SELF & OTHER

1/6/2016

LOVE ~ LIFE IS A DANCE BETWEEN SELF & OTHER

What do you think of this?

Most people use LOVE for
what they want to get out
of it, and are frequently
blinded about the realities
of what the other person is capable of offering.

If we go into a relationshp wanting someone to change, then we will, after the blush of intimacy wears off, experience disappointment and frustration.

Most people do not perceive themselves and what they themselves want and who their true self is - and so do not perceive the other person either and who the other person is and what the other person wants (i.e. 2 people each on their own Soul Path coming together).

Until one is awake and open to perceiving one's self and perceiving the other as well as a separate person they are bonding with and blending with -- love can be a mixed up mess after one gets past the infatuation or the first 6 months or year of newness.

Life is a dance between self and other.
Without a deep connection to self ~ there is no deep connection to other.
Without being close to True, Authentic Self ~ there is no closeness to other.

Love The Business & Life You're In! ♡♡ Corri Coaching

PERFECTION

1/2/2016

PERFECTION IS AN ILLUSION

If you are waiting to be PERFECT in something before you will proceed ... if you think you need to be PERFECT in ...

business
love
friendship
parenting
family

... then you are sabotaging yourself, getting yourself stuck before you even get started.

You are ready now to take action in what you want and start moving towards it and allow yourself to experience it. Usually behind that sense of getting it perfect, or getting it right, is fear, anxiety about something in ourselves, or something we offer, or where we might feel lacking. Getting past that fear, anxiety, lack, will change your motivation, passion, and excitement for what you want -- as opposed to feeling overwhelmed or drained by what you want.

Many people wait until their website and foundations are all perfected before they start their business, when their business can begin immediately and everything else can be brought into place as you move along. You do not need to have your preliminaries be perfect. There is "no perfect." That is a self-sabotage from taking action. As you move along with your business there will always be a ton of things to work on to better your foundation and your business, and no reason to wait.

If you are not perfect in your business, it means that clients will feel you as a human being and can relate to you. What you achieve they know they can achieve too.

People have something to share with others, they doubt their writing abilities and so they don't write what they feel. They may even hold back from putting it out there because they feel it needs to be perfect. There is "no perfect." That is a self-sabotage from taking action.

If you are waiting for new friends, new love, a new life, in new ways, and waiting until you are perfect in some way, remember ... it is your flaws that makes you part of who you are, and makes you human. People like us for who we are, not for who we could be. If you are waiting to be perfect, before you reach out to enage with others and meet in person, there is "no perfect." That is a self-sabotage from taking action.

We are all capable of much more than we know we are.

Start from wherever you are ... but do start.

We are, all of us ~ a work in progress.

Love The Business & Life You’re In! ♡♡ Corri Coaching

To Contact me: http://www.corricoaching.com/contact.html