Have you ever wondered why we "fall" in love?
"Falling in love" can be a spontaneous and exciting occurrence.
Unfortunately the glow of it may only last a year and can be full of illusion.
WHY does this happen?
Because it is often a "falling" -- accurate words, a compromise, or a disconnect from what we really want or what we feel. We attract what it is we have experienced with love, what we have seen and felt, whether conscious or unconscious. Up the road this may feel like an unjustified and/or empty compromise, something less than what we want. It can come back to bite us.
HOW does this happen?
This "falling" in love can happen when a person is not aligned with their true and authentic self. At no fault of one's own, one may have seen and/or experienced a type of love growing up that was hurtful or damaging and may have absorbed that into what I call one's "Template." It is a pattern that one lives and is attracted to and attracts from others. It can frequently be unconscious, but if you repeatedly have the same type of relationships with the same unsatisfying conclusions, it is usually because of this Template.
We may be in a relationship and try to eluct in another the same template/pattern behaviors that create the very discord we don't really want. Years ago I saw this in a man I loved, and saw it in myself as well. We fit each other's Template, but it was an unhealthy and unsatisfying outcome that neither of us were happy with (though it originally had so much excitement and glow to it for over a year). I altered my template/pattern and you can too. What this can mean to you is attracting and moving into a relationship that is fulfilling and satisfying for you, one you can embrace and love for a long time.
WHAT can be done?
You can find ways to rewire your brain and your automatic processes. There are different books and programs that people offer for rewiring your brain, re-patterning, changing your template. It may be easier to do this with a coaching partner. In my coaching process, because I did this with my own life, and noticed my clients running up against the wall of their template/pattern repeatedly, even when they consciously wanted otherwise ~ I created a process to redo their template/pattern to create their fulfillment. it is easier and smoother than you might think, and takes less time than you might think. My clients get the results they seek with this process and are always amazed about how it alters what they attract and move towards in business, in love, in family, in friendships, and touches every part of their life.
Until one learns how to be in love with one's Self first, we might reach to fill that void, and accept someone into our sacred space of love -- that we may ultimately feel doesn't deserve what we have to offer, and it may be painful. You can learn to have a relationship that embraces who you are and is aligned with the love you seek.
Dreams do come true!
Love the Life You're In ♡♡ Corri Coaching
"Falling in love" can be a spontaneous and exciting occurrence.
Unfortunately the glow of it may only last a year and can be full of illusion.
WHY does this happen?
Because it is often a "falling" -- accurate words, a compromise, or a disconnect from what we really want or what we feel. We attract what it is we have experienced with love, what we have seen and felt, whether conscious or unconscious. Up the road this may feel like an unjustified and/or empty compromise, something less than what we want. It can come back to bite us.
HOW does this happen?
This "falling" in love can happen when a person is not aligned with their true and authentic self. At no fault of one's own, one may have seen and/or experienced a type of love growing up that was hurtful or damaging and may have absorbed that into what I call one's "Template." It is a pattern that one lives and is attracted to and attracts from others. It can frequently be unconscious, but if you repeatedly have the same type of relationships with the same unsatisfying conclusions, it is usually because of this Template.
We may be in a relationship and try to eluct in another the same template/pattern behaviors that create the very discord we don't really want. Years ago I saw this in a man I loved, and saw it in myself as well. We fit each other's Template, but it was an unhealthy and unsatisfying outcome that neither of us were happy with (though it originally had so much excitement and glow to it for over a year). I altered my template/pattern and you can too. What this can mean to you is attracting and moving into a relationship that is fulfilling and satisfying for you, one you can embrace and love for a long time.
WHAT can be done?
You can find ways to rewire your brain and your automatic processes. There are different books and programs that people offer for rewiring your brain, re-patterning, changing your template. It may be easier to do this with a coaching partner. In my coaching process, because I did this with my own life, and noticed my clients running up against the wall of their template/pattern repeatedly, even when they consciously wanted otherwise ~ I created a process to redo their template/pattern to create their fulfillment. it is easier and smoother than you might think, and takes less time than you might think. My clients get the results they seek with this process and are always amazed about how it alters what they attract and move towards in business, in love, in family, in friendships, and touches every part of their life.
Until one learns how to be in love with one's Self first, we might reach to fill that void, and accept someone into our sacred space of love -- that we may ultimately feel doesn't deserve what we have to offer, and it may be painful. You can learn to have a relationship that embraces who you are and is aligned with the love you seek.
Dreams do come true!
Love the Life You're In ♡♡ Corri Coaching
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